A Feminist is not necessarily a woman; a man can also be a feminist. I am a Feminist. They say I belong more in the Ladies Parlor than in the men’s smoking room talking sports, cars, money etc. I was told at a recent party in Colorado, that “if I was finished talking with the men, I should join the ladies on the patio, where I belong.” Lord Byron (the Poet), Thomas Taylor (the Neo-Platonist), and John Dewey (the Philosopher) were Feminists. I’m in good company in those three cases. A feminist is simply one who believes in the God given equality of Men and Women. So maybe I do belong more in the “Ladies Parlor” than in the smoking room, besides I no longer smoke.
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One ought to have an insight into the predicament of lower class women. I would point
out that in a number of cases “working class” women “have” to work since their
economic status, or should we say the economic status of their family is at stake.
It’s a difficult problem. Today’s war on the middle class is only because the working
class has already been defeated. I think choice does not fall to working class women
because they are stuck, so to speak, supplementing their family’s income in order to
have a roof over their head and food on their table, let alone clothes on their backs.
I am deeply troubled by this, because I know a number of working class women who are smarter, more skilled and more hard working than many of their middle class counterparts.
I really think that if Feminism is to work in today’s society, they will have to come to
grips with the plight of the working class woman. Many of the middle class women I
know are “trophy wives” and have little if any skills and knowledge other than their
ability to fulfill the role of “middle class wife”. This of course is not true of everyone,
but it is true of far too many. Frankly, I have found that “working class” people are
real and far too often “middle class” people are pretentious to a great degree.
Maybe it’s the pretense that makes them “middle class”. It is really up to the skilled, knowledgeable and hard working middle class women to help bring their working class counterparts up to a better life.
out that in a number of cases “working class” women “have” to work since their
economic status, or should we say the economic status of their family is at stake.
It’s a difficult problem. Today’s war on the middle class is only because the working
class has already been defeated. I think choice does not fall to working class women
because they are stuck, so to speak, supplementing their family’s income in order to
have a roof over their head and food on their table, let alone clothes on their backs.
I am deeply troubled by this, because I know a number of working class women who are smarter, more skilled and more hard working than many of their middle class counterparts.
I really think that if Feminism is to work in today’s society, they will have to come to
grips with the plight of the working class woman. Many of the middle class women I
know are “trophy wives” and have little if any skills and knowledge other than their
ability to fulfill the role of “middle class wife”. This of course is not true of everyone,
but it is true of far too many. Frankly, I have found that “working class” people are
real and far too often “middle class” people are pretentious to a great degree.
Maybe it’s the pretense that makes them “middle class”. It is really up to the skilled, knowledgeable and hard working middle class women to help bring their working class counterparts up to a better life.
Feminism is not an easy subject that everyone understands and if it were, everyone
would be a feminist or there would be no real feminists. To notice how feminism changes, is something important. It can change not only in a family, but also in one individual. It is often said that men focus on an Ethics of Justice, while women focus
on an Ethics of care. It is unfair to speak of issues that women face in today’s world as “gender issues”. Gender is a matter of language and no amount of “Politically Correct” language can solve all these problems. PC language can and often is used to mask the real feelings and prejudices of PC language speakers. To really solve these issues, we need to come to a better understanding of the differences between men and women, which will lead to a more just, but also a more caring world.
would be a feminist or there would be no real feminists. To notice how feminism changes, is something important. It can change not only in a family, but also in one individual. It is often said that men focus on an Ethics of Justice, while women focus
on an Ethics of care. It is unfair to speak of issues that women face in today’s world as “gender issues”. Gender is a matter of language and no amount of “Politically Correct” language can solve all these problems. PC language can and often is used to mask the real feelings and prejudices of PC language speakers. To really solve these issues, we need to come to a better understanding of the differences between men and women, which will lead to a more just, but also a more caring world.